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anger, black men, black women, ignorance, interracial dating, men, relationships, thoughts, twitter, white men, white women, women
A few weeks ago, Up4dsn asked a question on twitter, the question was “What are your thoughts on interracial dating?” (something like that). I responded and said it that doesn’t bother me, it’s 2011 and people should be able to date anyone. Another user responded and said it did bother her (she’s black) and me and him both asked why. After she responded, this random guy tweets both her and I and says something like “maybe if you learned how to suck a dick right and take a nigga shopping we wouldn’t be dating white girls” and then he goes on to say “I bet money that neither one of you can deep throat my dick” WTF
Of course I responded to his ignorant ass. My response was that I NEVER said I had an issue with interracial dating and that he should try reading the whole conversation before he responds to other people about shit that had NOTHING to do with him. I also told I don’t NEED to learn how to do a damn thing, I have a man who is beyond satisfied with my skills *giggles*. But seriously, what kind of coke is this man on? What I got from his response is that he dates white girls because they deep throat and take him shopping…NEGRO!! If that’s your reason for dating a white girl, then you are all kinds of fucked up!
Perhaps, the problem isn’t black women, maybe the problem is YOU! Maybe she isn’t sucking you off because your dirty or just because you’re IGNORANT! That was made clear by his entire response. He sounds like a broke ass black man who can’t take care of himself so he relies on weak women to do it for him. I know plenty of black women who have no problem pleasing their man or buying things for him. The problem starts when the man expects all that from a woman but does not give her anything in return. What kind of shit is that?!
I was extremely pissed (so pissed that I blocked and reported him as spam lol) about his response to me, especially since it was completely unnecessary. Like I said, I never said I had an issue with dating outside of my race, nor do I have a problem with black men dating outside their race. It’s not my concern, It’s 2011 and people should be free to date whomever. What is the big damn deal?
Black people are always screaming about equality and injustices and this, that and the other but get their panties all bunched up because people want to date outside their race. Get over it! Instead of coming down on the black man for dating outside of his race, maybe you should go do the same. You both being black doesn’t mean that you’re meant to be together. You don’t know what GOD has planned for you. Open your mind, step outside the box and try it.
What are your thoughts on interracial dating? Is it wrong for a black man to date outside of his race? Are you threatened by white women who date black men? I need to know!
It’s sad that these ignorant assholes seem to be the only voice that is heard. The reality of the situation is that love doesn’t have color, so it shouldn’t make a difference what color a person is. We all bleed red. At the end of the day love should outweigh any situation. Let me take the moment to paint a better picture for black males in general.
A real black man wouldn’t depend a women to buy him things. A strong black man is one who would is dedicated to working hard and providing for his lady. He doesn’t complain cause he can’t sit his ass home and play madden. A good man doesn’t degrade his race by airing out his sexual experiences with them. If he gauges his interest in dating on if a woman can *deep throat* (not even sure how he would know without sleeping with her), then he is in for a rude awakening. And that rude awakening may end up being incurable. This guy is a kid, because real men, look for a woman who we can care for and spoil emotionally and financially. We love the fact that she will accept us at times when we are going through things. We love a strong woman who can motivate us and will stand up for her self when she needs to. That same attitude that black women are stereotyped for is the passion and fire that we love. Truth of the matter is he is a control freak who needs a door mat, not an equal.
Well said Jay!!!
Yes I have to agree with MzSporadic that was well said.
You are a right a real man…isn clear what this boy isn’t. His reply screamed that loud and clear.
I have no problems with people dating outside of their races…whatever makes them happy is fine with me. Like Mzsporadic says…its none of our concern
Great post!! & Great question JSin!!
Thanks ladies!!!
Love is love!
I don’t care who dates who. I just don’t want to hear negative things about Black women when Black men are with white women and that goes also for Black women bad mouthing Black men when dating white men.
Everybody just needs to date each other because of interests and similarities. Not for idiotic reasons as getting their dicks sucked, financial security, and pissing off their own race. It’s ridiculous. Date in the hopes of finding love and sharing a life.
“You both being black doesn’t mean that you’re meant to be together. You don’t know what GOD has planned for you. Open your mind, step outside the box and try it.”
Love this and I totally agree. A preference is a preference but damn some of us need to open up our minds a lot more. I mean if my parents didn’t open up their minds I wouldn’t be here lol
Saw this & on reading was saddened by the cliched ignorance some people still spout. As a white woman who does date interracially (tho not exclusively), I’ve heard offensive crap like this a million times – FYI, I’m not “easy”, I’m not “great at deep-throating”, I don’t take boys (he’s clearly not a man) “shopping”… etc etc… I still can’t understand why people perpetuate these myths. Clearly not everyone of a certain skin hue DOES EVERYTHING THE SAME!!!
I don’t judge people on who they date, so why should anyone else be concerned by little old me? I gave up on my mother doing it, d’you really think I give a shit about anyone else???
Great topic!