Interracial Dating

A few weeks ago, Up4dsn asked a question on twitter, the question was “What are your thoughts on interracial dating?” (something like that). I responded and said it that doesn’t bother me, it’s 2011 and people should be able to date anyone. Another user responded and said it did bother her (she’s black) and me and him both asked why. After she responded, this random guy tweets both her and I and says something like “maybe if you learned how to suck a dick right and take a nigga shopping we wouldn’t be dating white girls” and then he goes on to say “I bet money that neither one of you can deep throat my dick” WTF

Of course I responded to his ignorant ass. My response was that I NEVER said I had an issue with interracial dating and that he should try reading the whole conversation before he responds to other people about shit that had NOTHING to do with him. I also told I don’t NEED  to learn how to do a damn thing, I have a man who is beyond satisfied with my skills *giggles*. But seriously, what kind of coke is this man on? What I got from his response is that he dates white girls because they deep throat and take him shopping…NEGRO!! If that’s your reason for dating a white girl, then you are all kinds of fucked up!

Perhaps, the problem isn’t black women, maybe the problem is YOU! Maybe she isn’t sucking you off because your dirty or just because you’re IGNORANT! That was made clear by his entire response. He sounds like a broke ass black man who can’t take care of himself so he relies on weak women to do it for him. I know plenty of black women who have no problem pleasing their man or buying things for him. The problem starts when the man expects all that from a woman but does not give her anything in return. What kind of shit is that?!

I was extremely pissed (so pissed that I blocked and reported him as spam lol) about his response to me, especially since it was completely unnecessary. Like I said, I never said I had an issue with dating outside of my race, nor do I have a problem with black men dating outside their race. It’s not my concern, It’s 2011 and people should be free to date whomever. What is the big damn deal?

Black people are always screaming about equality and injustices and this, that and the other but get their panties all bunched up because people want to date outside their race. Get over it! Instead of coming down on the black man for dating outside of his race, maybe you should go do the same. You both being black doesn’t mean that you’re meant to be together. You don’t know what GOD has planned for you. Open your mind, step outside the box and try it.

What are your thoughts on interracial dating? Is it wrong for a black man to date outside of his race? Are you threatened by white women who date black men? I need to know!

 

Nigga Please!!

the 'nigga please' look

So, I know this title seems a bit strange, but it’s appropiate for what I’m about to say!

The latest thing on twitter was someone (a black person) making a comment saying that it was okay for white people to use the word nigga. Of course, a bunch of black folks got all up in their feelings and were angry about it. There were all kinds of comments about what they would to do to white people if they ever said it to them or if they heard them use it. There were comments about how it relates to slavery and blah blah blah.

I don’t get it. How can you, as a black person, be mad about someone else calling you a nigga when you walk around calling yourself and others that very same word…nigga! It’s like they think because they took the ‘er’ off the end that it makes it a differnt word. NO! It’s the same fucking word!  Nigga and Nigger mean the same damn thing, a dergotory term for blacks. My question is, what’s the difference between them using it and you using it? I don’t see the damn difference. I feel like black people just need an excuse to do something hateful towards a white person.

I feel like if you don’t want white people walking around calling you a nigga,  then you should erase the word from your vocabulary. I guess their parents never told them to lead by example. I don’t care if white people use it or not, it doesn’t bother me. Black people are more racist than they fail to realize and WE are our own worst enemy, not the white man.

Dear Black folk, lead by example and omit NIGGA from your vocabulary and show all people that it is a derogatory term, no matter who uses it!! LEAD BY EXAMPLE!! Until then, SHUT THE FUCK UP about others using the word. That is all!