Interracial Dating

A few weeks ago, Up4dsn asked a question on twitter, the question was “What are your thoughts on interracial dating?” (something like that). I responded and said it that doesn’t bother me, it’s 2011 and people should be able to date anyone. Another user responded and said it did bother her (she’s black) and me and him both asked why. After she responded, this random guy tweets both her and I and says something like “maybe if you learned how to suck a dick right and take a nigga shopping we wouldn’t be dating white girls” and then he goes on to say “I bet money that neither one of you can deep throat my dick” WTF

Of course I responded to his ignorant ass. My response was that I NEVER said I had an issue with interracial dating and that he should try reading the whole conversation before he responds to other people about shit that had NOTHING to do with him. I also told I don’t NEED  to learn how to do a damn thing, I have a man who is beyond satisfied with my skills *giggles*. But seriously, what kind of coke is this man on? What I got from his response is that he dates white girls because they deep throat and take him shopping…NEGRO!! If that’s your reason for dating a white girl, then you are all kinds of fucked up!

Perhaps, the problem isn’t black women, maybe the problem is YOU! Maybe she isn’t sucking you off because your dirty or just because you’re IGNORANT! That was made clear by his entire response. He sounds like a broke ass black man who can’t take care of himself so he relies on weak women to do it for him. I know plenty of black women who have no problem pleasing their man or buying things for him. The problem starts when the man expects all that from a woman but does not give her anything in return. What kind of shit is that?!

I was extremely pissed (so pissed that I blocked and reported him as spam lol) about his response to me, especially since it was completely unnecessary. Like I said, I never said I had an issue with dating outside of my race, nor do I have a problem with black men dating outside their race. It’s not my concern, It’s 2011 and people should be free to date whomever. What is the big damn deal?

Black people are always screaming about equality and injustices and this, that and the other but get their panties all bunched up because people want to date outside their race. Get over it! Instead of coming down on the black man for dating outside of his race, maybe you should go do the same. You both being black doesn’t mean that you’re meant to be together. You don’t know what GOD has planned for you. Open your mind, step outside the box and try it.

What are your thoughts on interracial dating? Is it wrong for a black man to date outside of his race? Are you threatened by white women who date black men? I need to know!

 

Nigga Please!!

the 'nigga please' look

So, I know this title seems a bit strange, but it’s appropiate for what I’m about to say!

The latest thing on twitter was someone (a black person) making a comment saying that it was okay for white people to use the word nigga. Of course, a bunch of black folks got all up in their feelings and were angry about it. There were all kinds of comments about what they would to do to white people if they ever said it to them or if they heard them use it. There were comments about how it relates to slavery and blah blah blah.

I don’t get it. How can you, as a black person, be mad about someone else calling you a nigga when you walk around calling yourself and others that very same word…nigga! It’s like they think because they took the ‘er’ off the end that it makes it a differnt word. NO! It’s the same fucking word!  Nigga and Nigger mean the same damn thing, a dergotory term for blacks. My question is, what’s the difference between them using it and you using it? I don’t see the damn difference. I feel like black people just need an excuse to do something hateful towards a white person.

I feel like if you don’t want white people walking around calling you a nigga,  then you should erase the word from your vocabulary. I guess their parents never told them to lead by example. I don’t care if white people use it or not, it doesn’t bother me. Black people are more racist than they fail to realize and WE are our own worst enemy, not the white man.

Dear Black folk, lead by example and omit NIGGA from your vocabulary and show all people that it is a derogatory term, no matter who uses it!! LEAD BY EXAMPLE!! Until then, SHUT THE FUCK UP about others using the word. That is all!

 

Twitter: Where Bullying Seems Okay

The other day I was on twitter and a handful of people I follow all seemed to be talking about the same thing. A guy who was REALLY emotional about something that happened with him and a woman. I’m nosey (lol) so I took a peek at the guy’s timeline. It was very obvious that he was extremely hurt by whatever happened between him and this woman. He was tweeting that he had been crying, how hurt he was, and so on.

For some odd reason, these handful of people I follow all thought it was funny that this man was tweeting things like this. They teased this man like no other, telling him things like he should go kill himself, he’s acting like a woman, he’s psycho, insane, crazy and blah blah blah. Some of them even said that twitter is not the place for him to vent these kinds of feelings. I was seriously bothered by this!

Who are they to tell this man where he should and should not vent his feelings? We can all agree that sometimes we feel like certain things should be left off of social networking sites. But let’s be REAL here. Not everyone has someone who they can physically go and talk to about their problems, some of us do but not all us. For some, social networking is the only way to vent their feelings. If you feel like twitter isn’t the place, why tease this man because of how he feels? That’s really childish.

Especially because a few of the people who teased him have been in their feelings on twitter on more than one occasion. One in particular is always in her feelings about a damn radio show and arguing with other people on twitter about it or constantly complaining how people are subtweeting and calling her fat. I don’t remember pointing a finger and laughing at her and telling her to go kill herself. Just the week before this man’s emotional rant, one of the other people who teased him was tweeting how she didn’t find out her child’s father’s real name until AFTER she had the baby and how she was hurt by it and how she had recently found out her (the teaser) own father had all these kids that she didn’t know about and how sad she was. I don’t remember anyone pointing a finger and laughing at her either. That’s emotional, is it not?

How you can condemn someone for being emotional on a social networking when you have been guilty of it yourself? The pot calling the kettle black right? I think so. These are all adults with children who decided to gang up on this man and tease him about his feelings. I’m disgusted by it. I have made a joke or two about people? Of course I have, we’re all guilty of that. But never have I condemned someone for the way they are feeling and tweeted them things like ‘go kill yourself’. What kind of bullshit is that? You’re an adult and should act like one.

God forbid, when their kid gets older and someone does the same exact thing to him, I guarantee you they wouldn’t want someone to tell their child to go kill themselves. I guess what I’m trying to say is that people need to mind their fucking business, social networking site or not! Who are you to judge him and say that he’s less of a man because he had an emotional rant?! He’s a HUMAN just like the rest of us and men have feelings just like women! Some are open about theirs while others are not!

I’m so disgusted by these people and the way they acted. Karma is the biggest BITCH I know and I’m sure she’s coming back around for their asses.

You don’t have to agree with someone does on social networking site, but you don’t have to judge, tease or bully them because of it. It’s childish..PERIOD! People need to grow up and stop trying to fit into twitter cliques and realize that we are all HUMANS with FEELINGS and not everyone has the same resources as you to express their feelings!